Chen Haomin’s wife, Lisa Jiang, suddenly announced in a live broadcast recently that after finishing the work at hand, she was going to go to the notary office to make a will.
This decision was not because of any serious disease that she had been diagnosed with publicly, but because Jiang Lisa herself revealed that she had been under too much pressure from work and family recently, had long-term insomnia, was obviously overdrafted, and often even worried about her sudden death.
So she wanted to arrange some things in advance while her mind was clear now.
Lisa Jiang said that she is not taboo about talking about wills. For her, writing down her property and posthumous arrangements clearly in advance is not an unlucky thing, but a kind of protection for her four children. If an accident does happen in the future, at least the child’s future life will not be confused by adult matters.
As soon as these words came out, they quickly attracted the attention of netizens.
Because anyone who knows Jiang Lisa’s experience knows that she has indeed been working hard these years.
In 2011, Jiang Lisa married Chen Haomin, who is 16 years older than herself. In just 5 years after her marriage, she had 4 caesarean sections and gave birth to 3 daughters and 1 son. What is even more surprising is that she has revealed in the past that after several births, she did not sit through the entire confinement according to the traditional way, and quickly devoted herself to taking care of her children and family.
I had four caesarean sections in five years. This experience used to trigger discussions every time it was mentioned.
However, for Lisa Jiang, giving birth to four children is not the “end of the mission”, but just the beginning of another busy life.
In addition to taking care of her four children, she has also worked with Chen Haomin on live broadcasts, short videos and product delivery in recent years. According to her own statement in the live broadcast, she is now busy from morning to night every day. Many times she cannot really rest until the early morning. She cannot fall asleep after lying in bed, and she has been in a state of insomnia for a long time.
She also mentioned that there are not only four children who need to be taken care of at home, but also the elders and other family members. The entire extended family has many things to do. There is work to do, children to take care of, and family to take care of. As time goes by, the body naturally begins to be overwhelmed.
This is why she suddenly thought of making a will. In fact, just a few days ago, Lisa Jiang became a topic due to a live broadcast between her husband and wife.
At that time, Chen Haomin said in the live broadcast that she was “insatiable”, which directly angered Lisa Jiang. She dug up her husband’s old accounts from many years ago on the spot and revealed that Chen Haomin had bought a house with all the money to give to his ex-girlfriend before they got married. After the breakup, the woman sold the house and made a profit, but Chen Haomin didn’t even get back the principal.
In that live broadcast, Lisa Jiang also mentioned that she had been saving money for many years after her marriage, and sometimes she was embarrassed to ask her husband for living expenses. Compared with her husband who was generous to his ex back then, the more she spoke, the more aggrieved she became, and the two even quarreled directly in front of the camera.
A few days after the incident, she talked about insomnia, physical overdraft and making a will in a live broadcast. No wonder many netizens felt that she might be under a lot of pressure recently.
For a 40-year-old mother who has to work and take care of four children at the same time, what she should really pay attention to is rest.
Lisa Jiang was a model when she was young. After marrying Chen Haomin, her focus in life quickly shifted to her family. After giving birth to four children in a few years, she gradually changed from the “Chen Haomin wife” in the entertainment news to one of the busiest people in a family of six.
The couple has gone through many ups and downs over the years, but their marriage has remained strong until now. Lisa Jiang is also increasingly willing to express her true thoughts in live broadcasts, including family expenses, the pressure of raising children, and the dissatisfaction between husband and wife.
Making a will in advance this time sounded a bit heavy, but her attitude was actually very calm. Writing down your child’s future arrangements clearly in advance can be understood as a way to prepare for a rainy day.
