Jing Yidan’s memorial service was grand and grand, but the foreign son-in-law did not show up. It turned out that her daughter and Dong Qing had the same problem.

In the farewell procession of family members, 73-year-old husband Wang Zimu stood at the door wearing sunglasses and bowed to thank the guests who came to express condolences. He looked haggard and could not hide his fatigue. The only queen, Erqing, dressed in black, stood aside. She was calm and restrained throughout the process and handled all the funeral matters in an orderly manner.

Anyone familiar with the situation knows that from the time Jing Yidan suffered a serious cerebral hemorrhage in June this year to his tragic death in September, during the three months of critical illness, Wang Erqing stayed in the hospital almost day and night, accompanying and taking care of him, and never slackened off.

But even in such a sad and solemn farewell ceremony, some people jumped out of sadness and picked up the details with a magnifying glass. All the photos of the scene were searched all over the Internet, but because Wang Erqing’s Scottish husband Nick was not seen, all kinds of speculations and criticisms followed one after another.

Some people assert that the fact that their mother-in-law was absent from the funeral after many years of marriage is enough to prove that their marriage has long since changed and their relationship has broken down. Some people have baseless speculation that there has always been a gap between the foreign son-in-law and the Jing family, and there are serious family conflicts. What’s more, they have unreasonably risen to the height of worshiping foreigners, using harsh words and malicious slander.

This is the most common bias of online public opinion: the public is always accustomed to standing on the moral high ground, snooping into, and judging other people’s family affairs. As long as the life trajectory of others does not conform to the inherent public perception, they will be eager to speculate, accuse, and condemn. But there are so many hidden secrets and difficulties hidden behind the private life of Leng Nuan that outsiders don’t know. It can never be defined by just a few on-site photos. A whole bloody drama was pieced together based on just one missing scene. After all, it is groundless speculation without any basis.

Looking at Wang Erqing, who has been pushed to the forefront by public opinion but has always been silent and calm, many people can’t help but think of another CCTV celebrity – Dong Qing. The life situations of the two people echoed each other over the years, with extremely similar transparency and tenacity.

They are all deeply involved in the CCTV system and have their own halo. They have been infinitely sought after by the public. In the second half of their lives, they have been subject to hot discussions and unwarranted criticisms on the Internet because of their family affairs. They have all chosen the same way of coping: no excuses, no responses, no entanglement, and living their own lives quietly.

As the only daughter of Jing Yidan, Wang Erqing was cared for by her parents since childhood and grew up in a low-key manner. When he grew up, he went to England to study. While studying at Imperial College, he met his Scottish husband Nick.

This cross-border romance was not smooth sailing at first, and Jing Yidan and his wife were worried and hesitant at first. But seeing his daughter’s firm attitude, Nick is down-to-earth, reliable, steady and responsible, and finally chose to respect his daughter’s choice and fully support this relationship.

After marriage, Wang Erqing has been deeply involved in the education industry, and Nick has also focused on his own career. The two of them are low-key and stable, living a smooth and ordinary family life. The only thing that made Jing Yidan slightly regretful during his lifetime was that Wang Erqing, who is 40 years old this year, never had children. Although the old man had gently encouraged the birth, he never forced it, and finally chose to respect his daughter’s life choice.

Now that Jing Yidan has suddenly passed away, Wang Erqing has to endure her grief and take care of her mother’s funeral, while at the same time comforting and accompanying her devastated 70-year-old father, shouldering the burden of the family alone. Only she understands the pressure and sadness involved.

Looking back at Dong Qing’s life trajectory, the same is true. She used to be a well-known CCTV sister. She hosted the Spring Festival Gala and hosted popular programs such as “Chinese Poetry Conference” and “The Reader”. She was talented and famous, and was the national host in the hearts of countless people.

But as she gradually faded out of the public eye and lost her stage aura, all kinds of negative rumors never stopped. A few years ago, my husband Mi Chunlei’s company was in deep debt crisis and I lost contact with him for a time. Rumors spread all over the Internet. Eye-catching rumors such as selling a house to pay off debts, breaking up marriages, and shattering dreams of becoming a wealthy family are flying all over the sky, causing speculation and slander.

Anyone else might have publicly spread the rumors and tried to refute them, but Dong Qing remained silent and indifferent. She turned down all public events and outside invitations, quietly returned to her family, took root in Shanghai, and quietly accompanied her family and took care of her children.

It wasn’t until Dong Qing’s father published an article in memory of his late wife that the public knew that she had never wasted those years when she faded away from the screen, and she had always been silently shouldering her family responsibilities. When her mother was seriously ill and passed away, she was very busy and dedicated to her filial piety. However, her husband was deeply involved in disputes and unable to take care of the family. All the pressure and burdens were silently borne by her alone.

Wang Erqing and Dong Qing have two completely different lives, but they share the same sobriety and tenacity. The more excellent and independent a woman is, the more she knows how to be calm in marriage and life. Their silence is never acknowledgment of guilty conscience, nor is it an unfortunate marriage, but the highest transparency of adults: never wasting energy and entangled with idle people.

You know whether your days are good or bad, and you can handle your life from good to bad. There is no need to explain it to the world repeatedly or prove it one by one. After the storm, the lives of the two still moved forward steadily, step by step, and their rhythm was never disrupted by rumors from the outside world.

After taking care of her mother’s funeral, Wang Erqing completely disappeared from the public eye. Her social media account was fixed on the day when the obituary was released. The text was short and restrained, without any sadness or gaffe, showing her calmness. In the days to come, her focus will only be on accompanying her elderly father and living a stable life. Faced with the rumors about marriage, she never replied a word and ignored them completely.

The deep love that has been with us for many years will never be shaken by a few Internet gossips. For her, living a good life and protecting the stability of her family is the best comfort for her mother.

Dong Qing’s current situation is equally stable and calm. In the summer of 2026, some netizens met her by chance at the graduation ceremony of a primary school in Shanghai. Wearing a simple shirt and a bare face, she has lost her celebrity aura and blends in low-key among the parents, looking simple and ordinary. When her son came on stage to give a speech, she held up her mobile phone to record the whole thing carefully, her eyes gentle and full of concern.

Nowadays, she leads a quiet life. She goes for exercise in the morning and picks up her children every day. Her life is simple and fulfilling. Faced with invitations to various industry events, she politely declined most of them, devoting all her spare time to her family and life. With only a few years left before retirement, she has already entered a stable and peaceful stage of life ahead of schedule.

Looking back at the past, Dong Qing stood in the center of the stage at her peak, attracting everyone’s attention, and there were still people who deliberately criticized and criticized her. Now that she has retreated into life and returned to the ordinary, the public has begun to miss her stage brilliance. But she herself has always been calm and calm: when she is in a high position, she will go all out and do things seriously. When she is ordinary, she will live a quiet life, treat her family well, be able to take things, let them go, and keep her heart.

People with truly strong hearts never live in the judgment and words of the world. Praise or slander from others can never change your true life and life. Instead of worrying about the outside world and catering to other people’s expectations, it is better to live each day in a down-to-earth manner.

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