I have been living together with He Chaoqiong for 14 years. I still have no certificate, no children, no status, and my status has surpassed that of Chen Baiqiang.

The most rare thing in a wealthy family is never the scenery, but who is standing next to you when you are doing things.

In He Chaoqiong’s life, outsiders always like to remember her “difficult to calm down” first. Chen Baiqiang’s old relationship, after so many years, can still make people feel sad when they mention it. They had known each other since childhood, but they could not get together later. When Chen Baiqiang passed away in 1993, she disregarded the taboos of wealthy families to support his funeral. After that, she visited his grave every year and wore pearl earrings, which she has not done for more than 30 years. What many people see is regret, but what really hurts people is that this feeling is never a gust of wind, but sinks deep in the heart, and time has not been able to dissipate it.

But if you only regard He Chaoqiong as “the person guarding Bai Yueguang”, it will be short-sighted. What’s really great about her is not that she can be sad, but that she can still handle the situation after being sad. During the family dispute over property in 2011, the three and four families joined forces to suppress SJM’s voting rights. There was public opinion on the outside and pressure on the inside. If it were ordinary people, they would be overwhelmed. But she resisted. At that time, what we are fighting for is not only ability, but also character. People who can stay on top of the storm often don’t rely on tough words, but are really ruthless in their bones.

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It was also at this stage that Yu Cheng’s name slowly emerged. This person is not a fuel-efficient person in Hong Kong’s entertainment and business circles. The former CEO of a commercial radio station, he once single-handedly created the world-famous pop charts, and also coached Lin Yilian. He is the kind of character who has a quick mind, tough skills, and has seen the world. The Hong Kong media wrote very directly: She not only accompanied He Chaoqiong for fourteen years, but also held hands with her on the streets of Paris, putting the four words “it is difficult to know oneself” on the table. What’s even more rare is that when the crisis over property rights was at its worst, she secretly worked to protect others from the wind by mortgaging land in mid-mountain and deploying capital.

This is very interesting. Chen Baiqiang is like youth, the kind of part that softens when you think of it; Yu Cheng is more like a comrade-in-arms, the one who stands silently when you are in the most difficult time. The former makes people remember that a woman can also be affectionate, while the latter makes people see that when a woman truly reaches the top, it is often not “waiting for someone to save her”, but whether she can find someone who can also be by her side.

In reality, it’s actually pretty much the same. In many relationships, when you are young, it is all about your heart, but later on, it is all about whether you can handle things together. It seems simple, but only when it comes to life do you realize how difficult it is. Some people will interpret this kind of long companionship as a legend, while others will think it is another kind of restrained perfection. After all, the most difficult thing in life is to put love in the right place, put people in the right place, and put yourself in the right place.

The most admirable thing about He Chaoqiong is not how many stories she has had, but that she has never been held back by stories. Remember when you should miss, take action when you should, and stand firm when you should. The road of the living must go forward, the dead will find their place, and those who remain will continue to pass. Her transparency is indeed rare. It’s not that I haven’t experienced pain, but that after experiencing pain, I can still live my life as my own.

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